Everyone has to start some time and I often find that many people who would like to attend a swingers party for the first time are often put off by the unknown, what if they get there and wish to change their minds, what if nobody takes your fancy are you going to be left feeling embarrassed? Allow me to detail for you the very first time I attended a swingers party with my partner...

My partner and myself had watched the porn movies, talked about the excitement of swinging and finally decided it is what we 'think' we both wanted. However, we wanted to attend a party with an open mind, sure if the urge took us we would join in, if not we wanted to experience what was going on around us without any pressures. We did a little research and found a party was scheduled not far from us and just a few days away. We contacted the host, told him it would be our first time and made the booking.

On arriving we were greeted at the door by a gentleman who introduced himself as the host. He was very friendly and showed us around the large 5 bedroom property. All the rooms were very large, four of the five bedrooms were sectioned off for privacy and bedroom five had the largest bed I had ever seen in it. There was a bathroom, 2 en-suites and a small bar area had been setup in the conservatory. After the tour Graham our host took us into the dining room where we were made more to feel like house guests with tea and cold drinks on offer. Graham then proceeded to tell us about the house rules.

They were all very simple, condoms and safe sex must be practiced, only go into bedroom five if you are willing to participate in a kind of free for all and no going behind the screens to just watch. Bathrooms are for visiting the toilet and washing, no sex in them and the only out of bounds room for sex was the living room, this was the neutral meeting and get acquainted area. He asked if we had any questions and to be honest it was all very laid back and easy going.

Graham then took us into the living room where there were lots of couples all having a chat and he introduced us to a few. He did not tell them it was our first time but they kind of knew and we were not made to feel inferior in any way. Before attending we had agreed that if there was a problem with either of us going ahead we would have a secret word for each other, I could tell on my partners face that he was certainly up for it but I still wasn't 100% sure.

As the evening progressed we were happily chatting away with different couples and at various times different people came and left the room. We eventually got very chatty with a couple a few years older than us but still very attractive. I could see by the eye contact that they also found us shall we say 'interesting'. My partner asked me if I would like another drink, I agreed (he took forever fetching it to which I later found out he had been delayed by watching a show in the kitchen, two women were getting it on). While he was away I took the time to get to know the couple we had been chatting to a little more, I explained it was our first time and the gentleman I was making conversation with offered to take me on a private tour. I wanted to but still felt a little uneasy, I wanted to check with my partner first that it would be okay.

On his return Bob (the gentleman I had been 'flirting' with) asked if it would be okay for him to go for a walk with me, my partners eyes lit up and he wasted no time in agreeing that it would be okay. "Don't worry", Bob's wife said, "I shall look after you while they are away". We wandered around the house watching various couples and threesomes making love, it was a very arousing situation and it kind of came real natural to just start touching and kissing Bob. I could now turn this into a very erotic article detailing exactly what we did but that is not the aim of this page. I really just wanted to give those that have never participated in a swinger party before a little glimpse of what to expect.

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